Hi guys, I felt like I should really share this experience with you. Recently I decided to conduct something of a…social experiment.
The first photo is of me in casual wear. It’s pretty mismatched. I was wearing my pajama top over my tee and had black pants on. My hairs messed up and everything. I look unprofessional, and it’s intended.
I took a walk through an inner city neighbourhood of Brisbane. I asked the police for directions to the library. I bought a krispy kreme doughnut from the 7 11. I went inside the mall and was asked to try free samples several times. I bought the first volume from SnK from Angus and Robert’s. I wasn’t treated any differently, the reactions were warm and friendly. My outfit didn’t effect anything at all.
The second image is me in a salwaar. The hair took effort to get into curls. (Sorry, the mirror was foggy) I had a bit of make up on. I looked good. The outfit was ironed and it looked much better than the previous one. I went to the same shops an hour later. Asked the same guard where the library was. Bought another krispy kreme.
The reactions were totally different. There were no thank you’s. No one asked me to try a sample. The guard was annoyed. When I went into the bookstore the lady at the register followed me around the whole time. When I bought a copy of ‘The storyteller’ by Jodi Picoult, she asked me if I had enough money with me before she scanned it.
I am a fourteen year old girl who has lived overseas for three years. Never have I faced such blatant discrimination.
What is this supposed to mean? You’re good to go as long as you don’t embrace your traditional values? Is this why south Asian girls are embarrassed to wear their saris and salwaars in the open? Is this why we refuse to wear our bindi and play the harmonium? Is this why we think it’s better to be well spoken in English that Bangla, Urdu, or Hindi.
When white people embrace my traditional values, they’re open minded. When I do it, I’m suddenly a nuisance. I’m automatically expected to not be well spoken. I’m automatically a suspect for shop lifting.
Think about that.
Dramas I’m Currently Watching: September 2014 Edition
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Mahira Khan worked at RiteAid during her college years in the US.
Mahira Khan would like to do a romantic song with Fawad - but is not a fan of item numbers.
Fawad has learned to use a filter when talking, as opposed to his past over honesty - which is great, because those of us who have been there since E.P. remember that previous honesty! ;)
Fawad was rejected a lot before getting the Humsafar role. I do wish he spoke about Dastaan though.
Fawad said not love to Sheharyar Munawar and Naveen. What’s the deal there?? I thought I knew all the Fawad gossip!
Always love any of Fawad’s interactions with the EP boys. Yay for Ahmed Butt love. :)
Fawad making fun of Mahira was so adorable.
"Hausla Afzai" was too funny. Love their poking fun at lack of pure Urdu.
All in all, a very fun episode. HSY is a slightly awkward host, but it was the first episode, so he has room to grow!